SEXUAL SINS OR NOT?
Sex has always played a big role in creation.
Animals act on instinct and thus procreate. Humans are different. Sex has the
purpose of procreation but also of bonding and enjoyment.
God
created men and women in His image (Gen. 1:27) as sexual beings. But because of
sin in the world (Rom. 3:23), sex has been misused and abused (Rom. 1:24-25).
A
biblical perspective of human sexuality must recognize that sexual intercourse
is exclusively reserved for marriage for the following purposes. First, it
establishes the one-flesh union (Gen. 2:24-25; Matt. 19:4-6). Second, it
provides for sexual intimacy within the marriage bond. The use of the word
“know” indicates a profound meaning of sexual intercourse (Gen. 4:1). Third,
sexual intercourse is for the mutual pleasure of husband and wife (Prov.
5:18-19). Fourth, sexual intercourse is for procreation (Gen. 1:28).
Sex is very powerful and can be
compared to nuclear energy. Within certain specifications of containment it is
very useful, without the bounds of containment it is very dangerous en even
very destruct full and can cause disasters and lead to death
In the
upcoming “pages” we will look closer at the various types of sexual relations
for example fornication, adultery, prostitution, rape, homosexuality, pornography, sexbots, necrophilia,
etc.
These
pages are mainly put together from other sources, written by various people, on
these matters. Credit is given and sources are quoted.
FORNICATION
DEFINITIONS:
1. Secular
a.
Consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other,
also adultery. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fornication
b. sex for the purpose of pleasure rather than reproduction, without the commitment of a relationship Collins English Dictionary. Copyright © HarperCollins Publishers
2. Biblical
Fornication also known as: sexual immorality Hebrew: zanah / Greek: porneia
“The
Greek word for ‘fornication’ (porneia) could include any sexual sin committed after the betrothal contract. …In Biblical usage,
‘fornication’ can mean any sexual congress outside monogamous marriage. It thus includes not only
premarital sex, but also adultery, homosexual acts, incest, remarriage after
un-Biblical divorce, and sexual acts with animals,
all of which are explicitly forbidden in the law as given through Moses (Leviticus 20:10-21). Christ expanded the prohibition against
adultery to include even sexual lusting (Matthew 5:28).” — Henry M. Morris, Ph.D.
LAW IN COUNTRIES
At what age
can you consent to having sex? It varies from country to county; some of the
laws are complex others simple.
GENERAL
1. Attitude of
people concerning sex outside of marriage
On the question: Do you believe in sex before marriage? One survey in 2010 revealed the following:
·
Amongst females
28.5% said NO and 71.5% said YES.· Amongst males 25.9 said NO and 74.1% said Yes
Most Australian mums and dads
are OK with their kids having sex before marriage but some are not so happy
with them doing it in the family home. A survey of 500 parents has found 80 per
cent think sex before marriage is acceptable. http://www.news.com.au/national/premarital-sex-ok-at-home-not-so-much/news-story/539905e2073faaf70ead5c583af0b022
From 1943 to
1999, attitudes toward premarital sex changed such that young women’s approval
increased from 12% to 73% and from 40% to 79% among young men. People’s
feelings of sexual guilt also decreased during this period. Nowadays, less than
25% of people believe premarital sex is “always or almost always” wrong. B.E. Wells; J.M. Twenge.
"Changes in young people's sexual behavior and attitudes, 1943-1999: A
cross-temporal meta-analysis". Review of General Psychology.
2. The behaviour of
people regarding sex outside of marriage
Western
nations:
The level
of premarital sexual activity in Western nations is extraordinary. Establishing
exact data can be elusive, but one report states that the "median age of
first intercourse for American boys [is] 15.5" and "for American
girls [it is] 16" (S.I. McMillen, M.D., and David Stern, M.D., None of These Diseases, 2000, p.
141).
Britain
Circumstances
are similar in Britain, where "the average age for both sexes to lose
their virginity is 16" (The
Observer, Dec. 2, 2001).Although these figures are bad enough, even more shocking is the rampant promiscuity among so many. For
example,
among Britain's 16- to 24-year-olds, "19.7 percent of men and 14.6 percent
of women have already had 10 or more partners" (The Guardian, Nov. 30, 2001).
South
Africa
The
most up-to-date research on the issue of teen sex in Cape Town, by Professor
Alan Flisher, head of the University of Cape Town's department of psychiatry
and mental health, prompted calls for intervention programmes to start in
primary school, in the light of results that showed that by 14, nearly
24% of boys and 5.5% of girls had had sex.
By 19,
the 2003 research found, the proportions went up to 72% for boys and 58% for
girls.
The
pupils canvassed were in Grades 8 and 11, from 39 high schools, and researchers
found between these grades a sharp increase in the number of pupils having sex.
"For
each grade, a significantly higher proportion of males had experienced sexual
intercourse," they said at that time.
A total
of 23.4% reported having had sex by 14. The figure jumped to 34.5% by age 15,
to 45.9% by 16, 53.7% at 17, 58.3% by 18 and nearly 70% by the age of 20.
Among
girls, Flisher's research showed a significant increase in sexual activity
between the ages of 14 and 15.
At 14,
5.5% of girls said they had had sex. Just a year older, that figure was up to
14%. By 18, just under half the girls had had sex. https://www.iol.co.za/news/south-africa/teen-sex-stats-shock-239971
3. Concepts
Phrases
and concepts like “consenting adults”, “friends with benefits”, “casual sex” “recreational
sex” "no
strings attached", "f**k buddies" These concepts are widely used
in society today.
A number of websites and phone in
clubs, where you can contact people for a “night of sex” are available. (hookingupsmart,
casualsexclub,
friendswithbenefitssex, f**kbuddies, etc.) This is not prostitution because there
is no financial gain for either party.
“Friends with benefits”, “Recreational
sex”, “Casual sex, "no strings attached", "f...buddies" doesn’t
differ much from being with a prostitute, except you don’t pay – it is fornication.
“It’s only physical” That
mentality goes with you even if you one day get marries “it’s only physical” when
you or your spouse cheats. That brings complication adultery and even divorce.
a. “The
guy had a girlfriend that I didn’t know about. She walked in on us as we were
having sex and started taking photos on her phone as ‘evidence’. I’ve never
been so mortified. Not to mention I felt like absolute sh*t having accidentally
enabled his cheating.”— Joanne, 31
b. “I
fell in love with him and it broke my damn heart.” — Sara, 20
c. College, I had friends with
benefits situation with a girl who lived on my dorm floor. I thought we were on
the same page with everything, but then when I met someone else (who later
became my girlfriend), she flipped out. She threw her drink at me at a party
and wouldn’t stop screaming about what a huge asshole I am. It was embarrassing
for both of us.”— Alexander, 24
d. “Well, I got pregnant.” —
Anonymous, 25
Other disadvantages of this lifestyle:
·
When you one day wants to marry, is harder to commit.
· You past an influence your marriage and your children e.g. embarrassment, commitment, temptation.
· Psychological problems might develop.
· Physical deceases.
· Emotional and spiritual bonding.
Various types of emotional fallouts can
doom FF. The most common type is when one of the friends gets too attached and
begins wanting something more. If the other person feels differently, they will
get hurt. In addition, sometimes one of the parties may become jealous if the
other person starts dating someone else seriously. It can be very difficult to
separate emotions from sex, but if you want to be FF that is exactly what you
have to steel yourself to do.
In the worst-case scenario, the blurring of the
lines between friend and lover precipitated by being FF can completely destroy
a friendship.
Messing around with friends can potentially hurt
your future relationships with other women. If your current girlfriend finds
out (and somehow, they always do) that you used to be intimate with one of your
female friends, she will instantly become jealous and suspicious of the other woman. https://thoughtcatalog.com/kris-miller/2017/04/7-real-life-friends-with-benefits-stories-that-went-incredibly-wrong/
Difference between
FWB and FB?
The way you label it. Either way,
it's a recipe for pain. Someone almost always gets attached emotionally. It's a
great way to destroy a relationship. I'm
sure many will comment about their success stories, parleying a friendship into
sexual ecstasy with no strings attached, but it's not the norm. Michelle Roses, Mother,
therapist, shark diver, reporter, dancer and Wonder Woman. Answered Dec 30, 2013
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-difference-between-friends-with-benefits-and-fuck-buddies
Four reasons Friends With Benefits Is
a Really Bad Idea
1. When you start a relationship with no
boundaries–you usually stay there.
One thing
that defines a friends with benefits relationship is the fact that it’s lacking
boundaries. The ambiguity and unknowns guarantee that there’s no title, no
rules and no commitment—so everything goes. You can make out today, “sext”
tomorrow and be out on a date with someone else the next day.
The
problem in relationships like this is that they don’t magically turn into
healthy relationships along the way. When you start a game with no rules, it’s
really hard to go back and play by the rules.
God calls
us to engage in relationships that are healthy, edifying and uplifting. All
throughout Scripture we’re challenged to honor one another and honor Him by
setting limits with each and every interaction.
2. When you don’t expect commitment, you sell
your own value short.
A huge
problem in the friends with benefits culture is that you learn to give, and
give, and give with no expectation or understanding of what you’ll get in
return.
You give
of yourself, your body, your time and your emotions without requiring a
commitment. When it comes to relationships, commitment is the price to pay—the
more you give, the more you should receive.
We are all
highly valued–and that value has been determined by God. But friends with
benefits encourages you to give for free and creates an atmosphere that fuels
selfishness, disrespect and zero responsibility.
Healthy
relationships require you to take ownership of your choices—and that always
starts with clear commitment.
3. The physical has the power to impact the
emotional and skew the rational.
We’re made
to bond during physical intimacy. Whether it be a hug, a kiss or sex, our
bodies are wired to release chemicals during physical intimacy that make us
feel connected to the person we’re with.
That’s a
really amazing thing, but it can be a really confusing thing when your mind is
telling you you’re friends and your emotions are telling you something far
different.
When you
create a relationship that’s built on the physical, your emotions will always
follow suit. But the thing is, emotions can’t always be trusted.
If you’ve
decided to be just “friends” with someone, or they’ve chosen to be “friends”
with you, there’s probably a good reason. Bringing in the physical will only
introduce confusion and cause you to second-guess your rational thinking. That
physical and emotional connection will cause you to keep coming back for
more—until you find yourself in an extremely unhealthy and dangerous cycle that
can leave you feeling paralyzed, stuck, and unable to move forward.
God calls
us to guard our sexual interactions for a reason—because He knows how powerful
those physical interactions can be.
4. Ambiguity sets you up for
heartbreak.
No matter
how you do it, when it comes to friends with benefits, someone will always
leave hurt.
The very
nature of giving without knowing what you will receive sets you up for some
major disappointment.
By our
very nature as humans we are wired for the experience of “give-and-take.” Go to
any store, purchase any item, or interact with any human being and you’ll
notice a pattern: I give something, and I get something else in return. There’s
a healthy balance in that kind of interaction that leaves us feeling satisfied.
But when
you engage in a relationship where you give with no commitment in return,
you’re setting yourself up for some major hurt and frustration, because you’re
setting yourself up to lose in the end.
No matter
who you are or what you’ve been through, you’re worth far more than the pain of
a one-way relationship. You owe it to yourself to embrace your God-given value,
to ask for more, and to expect great things in your life and relationships.
Take
ownership of the choices you make. And don’t ever blur the lines in a
relationship—because the shades of gray will always disappoint.
IN THE NEWS
The media reports sometimes tells us what is part of societies moral fibre, as the following portrays.
WHY ALL THIS INFORMATION IN THE BLOG? TO SHOW HOW WIDESPREAD THE PROBLEM ARE. THE MAJORITY TEND TO IGNORE IT. BUT WE MUST FACE IT AND STAND AGAINST IT.
WHY ALL THIS INFORMATION IN THE BLOG? TO SHOW HOW WIDESPREAD THE PROBLEM ARE. THE MAJORITY TEND TO IGNORE IT. BUT WE MUST FACE IT AND STAND AGAINST IT.
IN THE NEWS
An
indication of the attitude for people regarding sex and the sanctity of marriage,
look at the following incidents appearing in newspaper articles. This is but
the tip of the iceberg. This portrays the attitude of young people regarding
the sanctity of marriage.
https://www.timeslive.co.za/news/south-africa/2016-02-08-university-sex-games-target-naive-first-years/
http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2014/05/23/the-free-state-lolitas-and-10-other-sex-scandals-that-rocked-south-africa/#ixzz4rB3fCJSC
NURSING STUDENTS KWAZULU-NATAL SOUTH
AFRICA
ELDORADO PARK SCHOOLGIRL SOUTH AFRICA
During the meeting, teachers told parents that their lower primary learners were having sex and imitating sexual movements either with their clothes on, or in some cases, naked from the waist down.
The lecturer was chatting with his female student on how he could help her improve her grades and totally forgot to turn off the laptop camera and after he discovered what has happened, he deleted the video from video folder on his laptop but forgot to do same in the recycle bin. He later gave his Laptop Out and the Video found its way out courtesy of other Students http://news.livestream24x7.com/high-school-student-sex-video-leaked-in-south-africa/
CAPE TOWN SOUTH AFRICA SCHOOL SEX
Cape Town - The Western Cape Education Department is investigating shocking video footage of pupils having sex in the back of a classroom.
COSMO CITY SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA.
A former pupil who didn't want to be named said the problem has been going on for a long time. "We're surprised the media hasn't exposed this yet. Videos of boys and girls having sex in classrooms and toilets have gone viral. Sex is part of the school's culture," the pupil said.
The news crew spoke to a number of sources who confirmed there was a crisis at the school
https://www.enca.com/media/video/teenager-drops-out-school-after-naked-pictures-are-circulated?playlist=107
Allegedly engaged in sexual activity with female
pupils at the school Boys at a Pietermaritzburg high
school who were caught in a girls’ dormitory have been suspended from boarding
at the school, the KwaZulu-Natal education department said on Thursday.
FORT MYERS, FLORIDA USA
A group of teenagers who had sex in
a high school bathroom in Fort Myers, Florida, then posted a video of the
act on social media, have been disciplined, school officials
said.
A teenage girl had sex with as many
as two dozen boys after school Tuesday afternoon at South Fort Myers High
School, according to a Lee County Sheriff’s Office incident report.
Deputies said 25 males were spotted
via a hallway camera entering the restroom while the female was inside, the News-Press reported.“A
bunch of football players went into a room with a girl and had sex with her,
and a bunch of the football players were suspended,” student Alex Bailey told WBBH.
“So we might not have a football team this year.” http://ktla.com/2016/05/23/parents-stunned-after-girl-has-sex-with-as-many-as-2-dozen-boys-in-school-bathroom/
SCHOOL PUPILS SOUTH AFRICA
The incident involving three school
pupils caught on camera having sex while on school grounds was just “the tip of
the iceberg”, says the Film and Publications Board.
Chief executive Yoliswa Makhasi
said they had been closely following the Jules High School case where a girl
and two boys were filmed while having sex. Their main concern was that child
pornography had been created and was then distributed.
The 15-year-old girl and one of the
boys, a 14-year- old, were charged with consensual sexual penetration. The
second boy, 16, was charged with statutory rape. All three have also been
charged under the Sexual Offences and Film and Publication Act. https://www.iol.co.za/news/south-africa/western-cape/school-sex-video-just-tip-of-the-iceberg-878183
DURBAN SOUTH AFRICA - All 15 learners,
some who are over-age, allegedly had group sex with the girl inside and outside
the school.
On Wednesday, five of them appeared in the Durban Magistrate’s Court.
Ten of them were released into the custody of their parents because they were
under-age.Now the community is divided with one group of community members gunning
for one of the teachers, who they say was at the forefront of the investigation
by the school, which led to the arrests.
This group, which includes parents and family members of the suspects,
blockaded the school entrance and closed the school using rubbish and blocks
and are calling for the teacher to leave the school, claiming the boys are
innocent.
“The girl is known to be loose. She willingly slept with all of them.
Why didn’t she scream for help. She did it even outside the school,” said a
parent who did not want to be named.
While some of the accused learners allegedly had group sex with her on
school premises, others – some of them not pupils – allegedly did so outside
the school premises.It is alleged that the school is in possession of written evidence that
the girl agreed to have sex with one of the suspects who is her boyfriend, but
he allegedly arranged for his friends to join the orgy.
Another learner said the teachers who reported the matter to the police
must be protected from the parents of the suspects.“A lot of similar incidents happen at our schools and they get swept
under the carpet. We are grateful that this has come out in the open,” she
said. http://citizen.co.za/news/south-africa/977659/sex-video-rocks-durban-school/
WESTERN-CAPE-SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA
THE GRAPHIC CLIP
clearly shows a teen girl having sex with her classmate while sitting on his
lap.
They are both still in their school
uniform. The teenagers’ school uniform is identifiable on the video.
In the video, the boy’s pants are
pulled down to his knees as he sits in a chair with one hand placed around the
girl.
A few seconds into the recording
the boy looks into the camera above him and smiles as the girl remains facing
down. The boy can be heard talking to the
girl, but it is not clear what he is saying to her.He’s also seen showing gang signs
into the camera at the start and near the end of the recording.
The girl, who is dressed in a skirt
and school jersey, leans over a desk as they began to have sex.
It is not clear if the kids used
any protection.Towards the end of the video, the
girl suddenly looks up, as if noticing the camera for the first time.
She quickly tries to hide her face
in embarrassment, indicating that she did not know she was being filmed.While she seems shocked after
discovering they were being watched, her male friend simply looks into the
camera and smiles: http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2013/03/05/western-cape-school-sex-video-goes-viral/#ixzz4r2SOCZAi
SCHOOL
SEX VIDEO SOUTH AFRICA The video is believed to
have been filmed in a principal’s office.
A mom, who approached the Daily Voice, says she got the shock of
her life when her teenage daughter showed her a sex video on her cellphone.
A one-minute clip, which has been shared on WhatsApp for more than two
weeks, shows a girl in school uniform having sex with an adult man on a desk in
an office.
The daughter told her mom she knew the girl, a 15-year-old, and that the
video was shot in the palie’s office. She said the man worked as the school’s security guard.
The upset mom says: “This is clearly a grown man using a school child
for sex. What is this world coming to? Our girls are drawn in by promises of
money, drugs and protection or they sell their bodies for the next hit.”
In another sex video which surfaced in the same week, a 13-year-old girl
was having sex with four boys. According to the mother, these videos were posted on the internet and
have been circulating among high school learners
http://www.dailyvoice.co.za/news/school-sex-video-shock/
DEEPLY DISTURBING TRADITIONS
A
few weeks ago they were girls celebrating their matric results. Now, as
university freshers, they are the targets in a competitive "sex"
game.“Deeply disturbing traditions” exist at universities, says Kathleen Dey,
director of Rape Crisis in Cape Town.“Older male students intentionally target
first-year girls for sex and then compare notes.https://www.timeslive.co.za/news/south-africa/2016-02-08-university-sex-games-target-naive-first-years/
THARABOLLO SECONDARY & AURETE SECONDARY SCHOOL IN VANDERBIJLPARK SOUTH AFRICA
Camp to
prepare - They were supposed to go to the camp to prepare for their matric
exams. But it appears preparing for a life of fun was more important for some
girls, as they allegedly dumped their books and jumped the fence. THEY GAVE THE
BOYS SPECIAL LESSONS THEY WILL REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES!
Reports of horny teens stripping and poking at
the Ingwe Lodge matric camp in Vanderbijlpark, Vaal, has an gered the Gauteng
Department of Education. And liquor and drugs found in the possession of the
pupils did not improve the situation.Phumla Sekhonyane, spokeswoman for the
Gauteng Department of Education, confirmed that cases of misconduct against
some pupils were reported. “The SGBs of the kids’ schools will have to take
disciplinary measures against them,” she said.“We are still waiting for the
detailed report from the director of the camp.”
The
pupils at the lodge came from Tharabollo Secondary in Palm Springs and Prestigious
Aurete Secondary School in Vanderbijlpark.But parents blame the Gauteng
Education officials for lack of supervision.“It’s like our children were just
taken there and dumped.It appears the kids had to take care of themselves
without supervision,” a parent told Daily Sun. The senior officials who were at
the camp didn’t look after the kids left them by themselves but I don’t expect
they will be investigated because there are district officials involved.”
Daily Sun
visited the camp last Friday and some matrics confirmed that pupils had
stripped and two people were caught having sex in one of the rooms at the
lodge.“We were told that the pupils were going to be sent home but they are
still here,” said one pupil.Education officials at the camp refused to comment.
http://www.dailysun.co.za/News/National/Matric-sex-camp-20151019
STELLENBOSCH LOVE CLUB
(1965) SOUTH AFRICA
12 female Stellenbosch students
decided it would be a good idea to sleep with as many men as possible on
campus, and keep a log book of their exploits, awarding point for who
you slept with. It’s not a competition, ladies…
The 12 Apostles, as they
became lovingly known as, were eventually outed and kicked out of the university,
left to roam the streets and spread their “free love” message to the world.
http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2014/05/23/the-free-state-lolitas-and-10-other-sex-scandals-that-rocked-south-africa/#ixzz4rB3QX7XQ
http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2014/05/23/the-free-state-lolitas-and-10-other-sex-scandals-that-rocked-south-africa/#ixzz4rB3QX7XQ
The destination of their
club was to have however many adoration illicit relationships with male people
as could reasonably be expected.
The young ladies had a log
book each, in which they would keep a record of their sexual adventures. As
indicated by the Sunday Times, the male learners were separated into classes
and every given a specific number of focuses.
Doing the deed with a
Theology learner would get you five focuses, while an undertaking with a
restorative understudy would get you four focuses. A designing person would get
two focuses, while an expressions scholar earned one and only point, and the
rest were avoided.
The young ladies were
inevitably asked to leave the college after the club went to the consideration
of the school’s powers. http://dimitapapers.com/2014/05/free-love-club-south-africas-popular-11-sex-scandal/
PARYS SCHOOL GIRLS SOUTH AFRICA -LOLITAS OF THE
VAAL (1981)
Sex test
debilitated for the Lolitas of the Vaal (1981)
The residential community
of Parys in the then Orange Free State was shaken by its own particular sex
outrage when eight men were indicted under the Immorality Act for having
intercourse with minors.
Folks in the town dreaded
their girls would need to experience virginity tests. The embarrassment was
revealed when a 14-year-old chose to sort her 21-year-old sweetheart a letter
throughout her writing class. In it she stood up to him on his disloyalty while
she was away on an excursion to Bloemfontein.
At the point when the
educator asked to see what she was composing, the embarrassment was publicly
exposed. One of the schoolgirls accumulated
an arrangement of all the sexually dynamic young ladies at the school, and the
vital began to “dispose of all the spoiled fruits in the school”.
One of the young ladies
told the Sunday Times that things like this happened in light of the fact that
there was nothing better to do in the town.
http://dimitapapers.com/2014/05/free-love-club-south-africas-popular-11-sex-scandal/
ODENDAALSRUS SOUTH AFRICA - FREE STATE LOLITAS
(1983
Odendaalsrus in the Free State
played host to a massive scandal that saw young girls engaging in sex with
older men for cigarettes and liquor, and some who were just doing it for the
hell of it. The men were required to pay a R180
fine each or go to jail for 60 days.http://www.2oceansvibe.com/2014/05/23/the-free-state-lolitas-and-10-other-sex-scandals-that-rocked-south-africa/#ixzz4rB3fCJSC
DEDE
SECONDARY SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA
It was only after girls started giggling and “acting funny” did teachers
at Dede Secondary School realise they were excited over a sex orgy they had
enjoyed the night before.
Five to 10 boys from Manyatta Secondary School are believed to have
hiked 34 kilometres on Sunday night to the girls’ hostel housing about 100
students.
The educators and guardians of the girls’ morality had been clueless
about the goings-on. Eleven girls were suspended. The boys left around 9pm after preps and upon arrival they sneaked into
the girls’ dormitory.
It is believed the students organised the party through mobile phones,
which are banned. It is also believed the midnight frolics are a regular occurrence.
“The orgy was planned by Form Four students who allowed the boys in the
hostel, and only left after midnight,” a girl from St Mary Goretty’s told
reporters.
The Sowetan reported that two female and three male trainee
nurses were expelled after a mother comforting her sick child raised the alarm.
Unsettled by the “huffing and puffing”, she reported that she had
witnessed the student nurses engaging in group sex at the Charles Johnson
Memorial hospital in Nquthu, northern KwaZulu-Natal, a few days before
Christmas.
A hospital investigation confirmed that the group did have sex
in front of patients and after a suspension and a disciplinary hearing by the
school, the students were expelled. They have appealed the expulsion.—Sapa
https://mg.co.za/article/2006-01-13-nursing-students-sex-orgy-condemned
Metro's director of operations, David Thembe, said Vaughn Dooms, 22, and
Kester de Vos, 24, were dismissed on Wednesday for bringing the City of
Johannesburg into disrepute.
The two were arrested in May 2006 for allegedly contravening the Films
and Publication Act by making child pornography.They were accUsed of filming themselves on a cellphone camera having a
drunken orgy with an Eldorado Park teenager who was allegedly drugged and
conned into taking part.
The footage was distributed on the Internet and made its way to girl's
school playground."These officers were trusted in law enforcement and we condemn
their behaviour... They've lost their salaries, benefits, uniforms, badge and
guns. They are police officers no more," said Thembe.
He acknowledged that the inquiry had been underway since September last
year and blamed "due process" for the time taken to dismiss the men. Dooms told the weekend newspaper on Friday that he would miss his job as
a police officer.
The men will appear again next Friday in the Protea magistrate's court
in Soweto. - Sapa
https://www.iol.co.za/news/south-africa/joburg-cops-fired-after-orgy-allegations-315558
HILLSIDE PRIVATE SCHOOL
SOUTH AFRICA
The
Mpumalanga department of education is investigating Hillside Private School,
where a former teacher alleges Grade 11 pupils filmed themselves having sex to
sell the footage for cash.
Former teacher Johan Duvenhage says alcohol and drug abuse is
a regular occurrence at the institution, where some teachers haven’t been paid
for four months, Middelburg Observer reports.
He
further alleges that the school’s self-appointed “director”, Joseph Sebotse,
deduct UIF and tax from teachers, but fail to pay it
to the authorities. Duvenhage says foreign, unqualified teachers are appointed by
Sebotse in order for him to pay salaries below departmental benchmarks.
“Children fight over chairs and move the chairs with them from
class to class due to a shortage,” Duvenhage claims. He further alleges that sanitary pads are thrown into open boxes
at the entrance to the school.
Duvenhage says he personally pleaded with a teacher of Hoërskool
Middelburg to teach technical drawing to the pupils after hours, as a teacher
was never appointed. The teacher agreed, but left after the school also failed to pay
him.
Sebotse denied all the allegations but the department nonetheless
launched an investigation after receiving a letter of complaint from Duvenhage,
who also petitioned the education ministry to intervene. Departmental spokesperson Jasper Zwane confirmed the
investigation.
https://citizen.co.za/news/south-africa/1243152/private-school-rocked-by-sex-drugs-booze-allegations/
CHRIS J
BOTHA SECONDARY SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA
SEX
AND DRUGS ORGY IN CLASS
Sowetan 9
Dec 2014 Leonie Wagner wagnerle@timesmedia.co.za
PUPILS at
a Johannesburg high school have been captured in a shocking video having sex,
fighting in a classroom and sniffing white powder suspected to be drugs on a
school desk. The four-minute video clip, titled Yizo Yizo
the return CJB, shows – pupils
of Chris J Botha Secondary School in Bosmont, western Johannesburg, recreating
graphic scenes from the controversial school-based drama series Yizo Yizo.
The clip
– purporting to be a trailer for a film set to be released two weeks ago – has
been widely shared on social media since last month, even by pupils at other
schools.
It
consists of pictures and videos set to the 2002 song Ghetto Fabulous
featured in the series Yizo Yizo , which aired on SABC1 more than a decade ago. The TV
show dealt with issues such as rape, violence, drug dealing, harassment and a
school on the verge of anarchy.
The video
clip also shows a wild party in the boys’ bathroom and someone who appears to
be a teacher sleeping on a desk. In one
scene a pupil is seen standing on a teacher’s desk with the words “Grandma is
not here” appearing above his head.
In
another a teacher walks into a classroom and shortly after she leaves again,
the camera turns to a boy ’ s genitals. Then the
mayhem continues with pupils dancing on desks.
Gauteng
education spokeswoman Phumla Sekhonyane said the department was conducting an
investigation to establish the “certainty of the facts” regarding the video. “The
department will also take action to protect children from all forms of abuse
and neglect,” Sekhonyane said.
Chris J
Botha Secondary principal, Hagan Godfrey, said he was “disgusted ” by the
video. He said disciplinary measures were being taken against the 18 pupils
appearing in the video. Godfrey
said he had confronted the teacher who was seemingly caught sleeping and she
said she had been feeling ill and “rested her eyes during her free time”.
He said
he also spoke to the pupils in the video and they had various excuses,
including that the pictures were not taken on school premises and the white
powder being sniffed had been chalk dust.
Godfrey
said police conducted regular drug raids at the school. “We are
sitting on a ticking time bomb,” he said.
“My
biggest challenge is keeping the drugs in the community out of the school,” he
said. A Grade
10 pupil at the school who asked not to be named for fear of reprisals
yesterday said: “I know what ’ s going on in the school but nobody bothers to
change it. It’s not right and a teacher sleeping in class is normal.”
FOLWENI
SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA
Children
as young as six are having sex at a Folweni school. That was the disturbing
news given to parents at a school meeting in Folweni on Thursday, as teachers
took the initiative in an attempt to stem a growing problem in their primary
school. During the meeting, teachers told parents that their lower primary learners were having sex and imitating sexual movements either with their clothes on, or in some cases, naked from the waist down.
One of
the teachers, Sibongile Mbense, said she had caught five and seven-year-olds
having sex behind the school building when they thought no-one was looking. "When
I asked them what they were doing they couldn't say and one of them told me
they were doing what they saw on TV," she said.
The
independent online http://rense.com/general66/csexse.htm
CAPE PENINSULA UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY SOUTH AFRICA
Ladies you might wanna think twice
when he says the word "SEXTAPE" Two students of Cape Peninsula University Of Technology ,South Africa has been
expelled for making a sextape. The video found its way to the school
authorities, How? Well, Nobody knows. http://www.nairaland.com/1888216/video-south-africa-students-expelled
SOUTH AFRICAN HIGH
SCHOOL
South African High School Student Sex Video Leaked. This is a leaked
video of a lecturer caught on tape abusing a female student in his office. The lecturer was chatting with his female student on how he could help her improve her grades and totally forgot to turn off the laptop camera and after he discovered what has happened, he deleted the video from video folder on his laptop but forgot to do same in the recycle bin. He later gave his Laptop Out and the Video found its way out courtesy of other Students http://news.livestream24x7.com/high-school-student-sex-video-leaked-in-south-africa/
CAPE TOWN SOUTH AFRICA SCHOOL SEX
Cape Town - The Western Cape Education Department is investigating shocking video footage of pupils having sex in the back of a classroom.
The Daily Voice handed over the
video clip to the authorities after a concerned parent brought it to our
attention. here are fears that the video –
which clearly shows a boy and girl, who look in their early teens, having
sexual intercourse – has now gone viral among students in Cape Town. https://www.iol.co.za/news/crime-courts/teens-filmed-having-sex-in-class-1480778
A former pupil who didn't want to be named said the problem has been going on for a long time. "We're surprised the media hasn't exposed this yet. Videos of boys and girls having sex in classrooms and toilets have gone viral. Sex is part of the school's culture," the pupil said.
The news crew spoke to a number of sources who confirmed there was a crisis at the school
"Every afternoon after the teachers have left, pupils have sex.
There are condoms scattered everywhere," said one source. http://www.southafricalatestnews.co.za/news/1170-videos-of-boys-and-girls-having-sex-in-class-at-a-cosmo-city-school-go-viral.html
VIRGINIA SCHOOLGIRL SOUTH AFRICA.
Welkom - A 16-year-old Virginia
schoolgirl and a 42-year-old Welkom man are being charged with sexual offences
relating to the manufacturing, distribution and possession of child
pornography, after they sent naked pictures as well as videos of sex acts to
each other by cellphone.
The parents of the teenager found
the pictures on her phone after taking away the mobile to punish her for
walking out of church, reported Volksblad.
The girl’s parents, who live on a
farm outside Virigina, found the graphic photographs as well as conversations
and the number of the man, who owns a club in Welkom. There were also pictures that she
had sent to at least two schoolboys.
The man claims he didn’t know the
girl was underage, but said he knew she was still at school. http://www.news24.com/SouthAfrica/News/Girl-16-sends-naked-pics-to-man-42-20130403
BOKSBURGSCHOOL
GIRL, SOUTH AFRICA.
BOKSBURG, 17 September 2015 - A
teenage girl is dealing with the consequences after she allowed her boyfriend
to take naked pictures of her. She was forced to drop out of school after
sexually explicit images of her were circulated at school.https://www.enca.com/media/video/teenager-drops-out-school-after-naked-pictures-are-circulated?playlist=107
PIETERMARITZBURG
HIGH SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA.
Allegedly engaged in sexual activity with female
pupils at the school Boys at a Pietermaritzburg high
school who were caught in a girls’ dormitory have been suspended from boarding
at the school, the KwaZulu-Natal education department said on Thursday.
“The learners were only suspended
from the hostel; they are allowed to continue with normal schooling,”
department spokeswoman Mbali Thusi said. The pupils are from Sukuma
Comprehensive High School in Imbali township outside Pietermaritzburg.
Twenty-two boys were found in the
girls’ hostel on August 6, which was in breach of the hostel rules.
They allegedly engaged in sexual
activity with female pupils at the school. On Wednesday the pupils and their
parents were called to a meeting where the decision to suspend them was taken.
Thusi stressed that despite
suspicions, there was no evidence that they were caught having
sex. “Further investigations are still
continuing including getting information from the housekeepers who were on duty
during this period to give an account of what had happened,” she said. http://www.sowetanlive.co.za/news/2011/08/18/schoolboys-caught-in-girls-dormitory
SCHOOL SOUTH AFRICA.
Evidence has been provided that a teacher, Madelene De Lange
Holtzhausen, has been abusing young male students for an extended period of
time. The teacher has sought to intimidate the students into having sex after
school hours, sending money and airtime, and buying gifts for the victims.
Students are embarrassed, ashamed, and bullied into a relationship with
Holtzhausen.
By contacting several students via social media, namely WhatsApp and
Facebook, Holtzhausen would have explicit sexual conversations. One student,
whose name cannot be identified for protection, could not endure the
relationship and sought help. Since exposing the teacher, Holtzhausen, a mother
of two boys, disabled her Facebook account. http://guardianlv.com/2016/04/south-africa-sexual-harassment-at-belfast-academy-school/
JULES
HIGH SCHOOL JOHANNESBURG
'GANG-RAPE' SEX WAS CONSENSUAL – GIRL 2010-11-18 14:42
Johannesburg - The
15-year-old Jules High School girl who accused her schoolmates of gang-raping
her, has said the sex was consensual, the Star newspaper reported on Thursday.
"The girl made her
second brief appearance in the Magistrate’s Court on Thursday morning and
admitted, for the first time, that she had consensual sex with the two boys
aged 14 and 16," the newspaper said on its website.
The three were charged
with statutory rape by the national director of public prosecutions Advocate
Menzi Simelane on Wednesday. Simelane is
quoted as saying the prosecution team, based on evidence, could not prosecute
the boys on the main count of rape and recommended statutory rape charges.
Changed her mind
During their first appearance in the Johannesburg Magistrate's Court on Wednesday the boys admitted to their role in the consensual sex and the girl maintained that she had been raped.
On Thursday morning during her second appearance the girl changed her mind and agreed that the sex was consensual.The two boys were arrested on November 8 after allegedly raping the girl at her school in Jeppestown on November 4. They allegedly filmed the incident on their cellphones which was later shown to prosecutors as evidence.
Changed her mind
During their first appearance in the Johannesburg Magistrate's Court on Wednesday the boys admitted to their role in the consensual sex and the girl maintained that she had been raped.
On Thursday morning during her second appearance the girl changed her mind and agreed that the sex was consensual.The two boys were arrested on November 8 after allegedly raping the girl at her school in Jeppestown on November 4. They allegedly filmed the incident on their cellphones which was later shown to prosecutors as evidence.
Her case and the boys'
case have been postponed until December 1 for a final order, IOL said. All
three have been placed on a diversion programme.
http://www.news24.com/southafrica/news/gang-rape-sex-was-consensual-girl-20101118
There is no specific prohibition in the Bible against sex between
an unmarried man and unmarried woman. However, "sexual immorality" is
denounced in about 25 passages in the New Testament. The word translated as
"sexual immorality" or "fornication" in English versions of
the Bible is the Greek word porneia, which means "illicit sexual
intercourse."
[Jesus] said:
(NRSV, Mark
7:20-23) "It is what comes out of a person
that defiles. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions
come: fornication, theft, murder, adultery, avarice, wickedness, deceit,
licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, folly. All these evil things come from
within, and they defile a person."
(NIV, Galatians 5:19-21) The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual
immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred,
discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and
envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that
those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
(TNIV, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20) Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins people
commit are outside their bodies, but those who sin sexually sin against their
own bodies. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit,
who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were
bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your bodies.
In our sex-saturated culture, many unmarried people, especially
teenagers, feel pressured to be sexually active. The temptations now may be
greater than ever because people are delaying marriage until their late 20s or
30s. However, the Bible consistently teaches self-control rather than
self-indulgence (Galatians 5:19-24, 1 Corinthians
10:13). In Biblical teachings, the privilege of having sex requires
the commitment of marriage. Sexually-transmitted diseases, unintended
pregnancy, and emotional pain are too often the price paid for sex without
marriage.
Related verses: Matthew
15:19-20, 1 Corinthians 5:1-2, 6:9-11,
6:16-20,
7:36-38,
Ephesians
5:3-5, Colossians 3:5-6. http://www.christianbiblereference.org/faq_premaritalsex.htm
FINAL COMMENTS
But it’s not important what men say or what so
called experts say, what does your Creator, the Lord God says? It is wrong. It
is harmful.
Sex is
like nuclear energy. Within a contained enjoinment very useful, outside
disastrous, harmful and dangerous.
Virgin
to a FWB after been mocked: “I can easily become like you, you can never again
become like me.”
Some people try thing ring thing. Wear a ring to remind them to stay without sex until married. It might work for some, but a study has found that the majority that tried it failed and got back in to a sexual lifestyle before marriage.
The
solution to this disillusioned lifestyle is the Christian gospel. A Gospel of
forgiveness and restoration.
YOU ARE A SINNER .
YOU DESERVE HELL
CHRIST DIED FOR YOU
BELIEVE AND CONFESS
YOU WILL BE SAVED
REJOICE
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